The Custom Ceremony Package
Imagine that this is your wedding...
Every eye is on you as you walk down the aisle. You're feeling as confident as you are radiant because you know your ceremony is going to be perfect, after all, you designed it yourself.
It seems like only yesterday you met with your officiant, looked through her sample weddings, answered her questions and thought about every aspect of your wedding service in detail. Her support, experience and “whatever makes you happy” attitude allowed you and your partner to dream as big and as freely as you wanted to. When you went home and had more questions, she was there to respond to them and nothing slipped through the cracks.
Last night's rehearsal was a little hectic but your officiant was able to answer everyone's questions (all according to your preferences, of course) and gently guide your wonderful friends and family though the staging of the entire ceremony, the receiving line and the transition between the ceremony and the reception. By the end of the rehearsal, all of your concerns were addressed and everyone knew just what to do.
Now, as you glide down the aisle, you know that every word of your wedding ceremony will be meaningful and poignant because you've read and approved them all. Still, hearing them read aloud, in front of your family and friends, while looking into the eyes of your beloved, they sound fresh and new. They may even move you to tears, even though you promised yourself you wouldn't cry.
After the ceremony, you take your time and enjoy the compliments and congratulations of your guests. The paperwork is handled efficiently and professionaly before you head off to celebrate the most amazing day of your life.
Being able to create and celebrate your wedding with a positive, professional, joyful officiant may be your dream but, unlike some dreams, this one can come true...
The custom ceremony package is my full-service option for couples who want a unique ceremony that suits them perfectly.
Design your dream ceremony with as many extras as you like, for as many people as you like. Pick and choose from my many samples and/or have me custom write the exact ceremony you want. You have my unlimited phone and email support to answer any questions about vow writing, cultural customs, traditions and...well, anything wedding ceremony related. If I don't already know the answer, I'll find it for you.
Edit your ceremony as much or as little as you like up to the day of (and even during) your rehearsal. You'll approve every word before I speak it and avoid any unexpected or unpleasant surprises.
This package includes a complete rehearsal that covers all of the entrances and exits for your family and bridal party. We go through the basics of the ceremony, but never the complete wording, only the “cues” for actions and/or responses. These “run-throughs” (typically 2 per rehearsal, but sometimes 3 if the ceremony is complex) are designed to answer everyone's questions so they (and you) can feel confident about what's expected and relax for the remainder of the celebrations.
In total, the custom ceremony package includes:
- An in-depth, in person design interview with both of you that covers all aspects of your ceremony
- Creative support and experience helping you imagine a dream ceremony that fulfills your (and your family's) personal, emotional and spiritual needs
- Access to my vast online library of ceremony, vow, readings and other samples
- A ceremony rough draft emailed (or mailed, if necessary) to you for your comments
- Unlimited email and phone support from the day of booking until 2 weeks following the ceremony
- Help finding and choosing the perfect music, readings and vows, if desired
- Research into cultural traditions and rituals that might complement your ceremony
- Editing of the ceremony as many times and as extensively as required to create the ceremony that is perfect for you in every way
- A generous 2 hour block of time for your full rehearsal
- Experienced, hands-on rehearsal management covering the basics and all questions (without revealing all the juicy bits of your actual ceremony!)
- A mini-training session for inexperienced ushers, if desired
- Full cooperation with your photographer, videographer, musicians, DJs and/or other vendors including briefing them on photo opportunities, performing sound checks, allowing flash photos, adapting ceremony staging, etc.
- My arrival at venue 30 minutes prior to ceremony starting time
- Performance of your wedding ceremony
- Completion of your marriage license paperwork.
- A customized keepsake copy of your ceremony script
- A personalized keepsake marriage certificate, suitable for display
- Filing of your marriage license with the County Clerk
- And more, just ask!
The basic custom ceremony package total fee is $350 for a one-of-a-kind ceremony that meets your approval every step of the way. If your venue is over 20 miles from Lansing, an additional fee to cover travel expenses may be required.
Are you ready to begin designing your ultimate wedding ceremony?
Call or email Kya today to schedule your free ceremony design consultation session. While you wait, please read my FAQ and browse the testimonials other couples have honored me with.
May the best day of your past be the worst day of your wonderful future together!

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My Couples Say:
"Sister Kya was absolutely amazing!
We got many compliments on the ceremony and also how wonderful she was. She was all smiles and working with her was a lot of fun.
We would recommend her to everyone!"
Sara and Chuck -
Married February 21, 2009