Serving Michigan Families
since 2002

Born and raised in Ann Arbor, Michigan, I grew up in an open-minded Christian home with parents who encouraged me to maintain an open mind about all things Spiritual. I have been ordained by the Temple of Earth and am an Interfaith Officiant, comfortable with a wide variety of spiritual beliefs. My style is eclectic, respectful and empowering because I strongly believe that all people should be free to live their lives according to their own values and encourages everyone to do what makes them happiest (assuming it isn't harming anyone else).

I am currently active in my wedding ministry as well as in my personal ministries as an officiant and spiritual guide. I continue to learn, grow and adapt my beliefs with every new experience, just as I believe my creator intended me to.

Because my background seems somewhat "unconventional" to some, to better clarify my beliefs and policies I'll answer some of the more common questions I am asked by couples here.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Are you a Catholic nun?

No, I am neither.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Why are you a "Sister" and not a "Reverend"?

I am, technically, a Reverend. I was ordained as such in 2002 and have been performing in that capacity ever since. However, I prefer the title "Sister", given to me by the Temple of Earth, based on the teachings of Jesus, particularly his teachings on humility and the brotherhood of man. I do not seek any special "reverence" from others, merely the same respect we all deserve as human beings.

Unfortunately, the State of Michigan doesn't recognize "Sister" as an authorized title for wedding officiants, so I sign marriage licenses with my ordained title, Reverend.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Is Kya Rose your real name?

Kya (pronounced KI-ah, not KEE-ah) Rose is my real name. Hence, the name that will appear on the bottom of your marriage license is "Rev. Kya Rose".

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

How much do you charge?

My packages and fees are outlined here.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Will you travel to our venue?

I am authorized to perform legal marriage ceremonies anywhere in the State of Michigan and will happily travel to your Michigan venue to perform your ceremony. (Travel fees may apply). For venues outside of Michigan, I may or may not be legally authorized to perform your ceremony, please call or email me and ask.

I love performing destination weddings and would be delighted to travel to the romantic Michigan location of your dreams!

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Do you offer a venue for simple ceremonies or elopements?

I have performed weddings and handfastings in my home and backyard, but I do not maintain a picturesque garden or chapel for small weddings in Charlotte at this time.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Do you require pre-marital counseling?

I do not.

I do think it is essential for couples to educate themselves about relationships and what makes a strong marriage, but I will not refuse my services to couples who prefer to skip this step. I have collected a number of questions for couples that some have called "Do It Yourself Pre-Marital Counseling". These materials are available upon request.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Do you provide pre-marital counseling?

I am not licensed as a counselor.

I can offer suggestions for books and articles that I feel support healthy relationships. I can listen to your concerns about your past, current and potential future relationship issues but my advice isn't "official", it will merely be one woman's thoughts and beliefs, Spiritual Consulting, if you will. If you are interested in purchasing this service we can certainly negotiate that.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

How much are we allowed to customize the ceremony?

For couples choosing the custom ceremony package, as much or as little as you would like. I have several ceremonies and pieces of ceremonies available to me and I'm happy to perform any one of them, a ceremony you found in another resource or something you wrote entirely on your own.

I do have some restrictions:

• Only sober, consensual participation in legal ceremonies. I refuse to perform ceremonies when I feel that either the Bride or the Groom is unable to offer informed consent. I'm also unwilling to watch children (or anyone else) bribed or threatened into performing as attendants. Coercion, in any form, is something I will not condone.
• No hate-based rhetoric (i.e. "I vow to destroy any members of our rival gang for you...")

That's it. It's YOUR celebration, so if you'd like to offer tobacco to the four directions, to sing Black Sabbath songs to each other as your vows or exchange food instead of rings, that's entirely up to you. My intention is to witness and formalize your intentions, and while I have knowledge and experience to share, in the end it's really a matter of your own personal preference.

For couples choosing the simple package, I do allow you to exchange your own self-written vows, if you desire, but that's all the customization I allow for.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Can we write our own vows?

Please do!! I think vows typically mean more if they come from your heart instead of a book. But if you'd rather not write them from scratch or at all, I have access to a large library of vows that you can pick and choose from, either to recite to each other or to have me read in the "I do" format.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Will you marry us even if we are not members of your faith?

Absolutely!

I see performing weddings as a vital part of my ministry and I intend to perform weddings (and any other ceremonies requested) for anyone who wants me to perform them regardless of religion, race, gender, sexual orientation or culture. It's all about your intention to participate in the ceremony with all your heart. That's what's important to me.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

If we are of different faiths, or if we are not religious at all, is that a problem?

It's not a problem for me. I am happy to help you craft a ceremony that combines the most important elements of each of your faiths or cultures. I'm happy to help you craft a ceremony that has no religious overtones in it at all. I serve the needs of my clientele, not the other way around.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Do you perform commitment ceremonies for same gender couples?

Yes.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

If one of us was married before but is now legally divorced, does your religion allow you to marry us?

Yes.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

What are your policies regarding fees?

I expect a retainer fee of 50% in order to book your date. It pays for my time, researching and writing your ceremony and is non-refundable.

I expect the balance to be paid two weeks (14 days) prior to the ceremony at the latest. Also, all travel fees, if applicable, must be paid before I travel to your venue.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Can we meet you in person before we make our decision?

I realize that many couples are uncomfortable with choosing someone off the Internet. You just never know what kind of style people have until you meet them face to face.

You are more than welcome to come to Charlotte and meet me in person before booking a date. There are a few different public venues where we can meet (Evelyn Bay's, 134 S. Cochran, is a popular spot) or you're welcome to come to my home. There's no charge for a local meeting.

If you'd prefer to have me come to you, I charge $20 plus mileage for my time. I'd love to be able to continue to offer free consultations in your hometown as well as mine, but I've found I can't do it anymore.

Find Charlotte, Michigan with Google Maps

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

How soon will we need to book our date?

As soon as you decide on using my services. Weekend dates, especially during the more popular months (May through September) go fast and you'll need to book the important items (officiant and location) early. Once those two foundation items are reserved, you can build from there.

I am currently accepting bookings for unique packages18-24 months in advance, so don't hesitate to reserve your date today! Couples choosing the simple package can only book dates 90 days in advance of the date of their wedding.

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

If you still have a question, please

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

Contact Sister Kya Rose

For information on booking a wedding or other ceremony, please submit a reservation form

For questions or comments, please

For phone inquiries:

(517) 541-0862
or
(734) 255-1009

~*~ ~*~ ~*~

~*~

A professional wedding officiant may also be a; celebrant, chaplain, clergy, clergyman, clergy person, cleric, counselor, facilitator, justice of the peace, JP, minister, officiator, officiate, official, padre, parson, pastor, preacher, reverend and/or a wedding minister.

Sister Kya Rose has performed weddings in: Lansing, East Lansing, Charlotte, Grand Ledge, Greenville, Grand Rapids, Detroit, Ionia, Milford, Bellevue, Ithaca, Ada, Alma, Ann Arbor, Mason, Kalamazoo, Milan, Ypsilanti, Saline, Frankfort, Delton, Concord, Dowagiac and Olivet and is willing to perform them in: Charlotte, Potterville, Vermontville, Eaton Rapids, Bellevue, Grand Ledge, Frankenmuth, Ludington, Grand Rapids, Dimondale, Mulliken, Sunfield, Concord, Springport, DeWitt, Lansing, East Lansing, St. Johns, Olivet, Eagle, Elsie, Fowler, Hubbardston, Maple Rapids, Ovid, Westphalia, Bath, Leslie, Mason, Williamston, Dansville, Webberville, Stockbridge, Jackson, Parma, Brooklyn, Grass Lake, Hanover, Springport, Cement City, Napoleon, Spring Arbor, Vandercook Lake, Albion, Battle Creek, Marshall, Springfield, Athens, Burlington, Homer, Tekonsha, Union City, Hastings, Freeport, Middleville, Nashville, Woodland, Belding, Clarksville, Hubbardston, Ionia, Lake Odessa, Miford, Brighton, Lyons, Muir, Kalamazoo, Pewamo, Portland, Saranac, Ann Arbor, Ypsilanti, Canton, Flint, Milan, Plymouth and many other Michigan cities.

Please realize that it is not legal to get married online, get married on the web, or get married on the Internet.
Sister Kya Rose is authorized by The Temple of Earth and the State of Michigan to perform your wedding ceremony in person and sign your marriage license, offering you a legal wedding and a legal marriage.

Copyright © 2006-2008 Kimberly Rose

Last modified: January, 2008

~*~